I was really privileged to join about 300 men, women and children on the Reclaim the Night walk from the Spinnaker Tower to Guildhall Square to raise awareness of domestic violence and rape against women. This coincided with the United Nations International day for the eradication of violence against women which is part of a fortnight of campaigning.
While we walked there were chants and banners flying and cars were stopped while we crossed major roads. Some of the marchers were police who deal with some of the 47,000 rape cases in the UK a year. When we got to Guildhall Square there were some very good speeches including one by a woman who told us about the physical and emotional abuse that she had received from her husband before escaping. It is extremely difficult for many women whose self esteem is very low after years of abuse and it takes a very brave woman to walk away particularly if they have no job and have children. We must not forget that there are incidences of men being abused too, and for them admitting it and leaving an abusive relationship can be just as hard. Patterns of behaviour are also learned by the children who then believe that is normal behaviour and go on to abuse the next generation. Breaking the cycle is essential and because of that, I do welcome the Government’s latest initiative in bringing it into discussion at school as part of the personal and social curriculum. Children need to know that it is not acceptable behaviour along with bullying outside the house.
Many women do not feel safe on the streets at night and my surveys show that this feeling is widespread in Portsmouth even if it is a misconception. We need more police visible on the streets and we must work towards reclaiming the night for everyone.

Cllr Linda Symes and I at the march